What are your thoughts on room-mates (read more)?

well my bf and his friend will be at work most the time cuz they work 1:30 p.m to 3 a.m and i also work about 30 hours a week. i know his friend and he’s very respectable about me choosing not to smoke. but i don’t no his gf and she doesn’t have job but apparently she does clean alot, and keeps to herself.

I think having someone socially close to you will help you make friends and have a close one living with you.

i don’t have friends that are socially close to me, only girls i talk to i work with. but if i want to live with him i guess i’ll have to compromise alittle, and deal with his friend and gf.

Whatever doubts you have now will only lead to disputes later. Fallow your gut feeling. You’re right to be edgy about moving in with your boyfriends friends since you don’t know them and they have a bad habit that also affects your relationship. Ways to remedy the problem are: choose people you don’t know as a couple so it’s easier to fix problems when they arise, write a contrat as collen said so everyone starts of on the same page (this is not fool proof) or instead of moving in with your boyfriend get your own place with roomates for a year to think it over and learn the dynamics of group living.

what the roomate movie. lol. just kidding i guess let them move in but if things are not working out just tell them they need to leave

If you plan to live with roommates have a written agreement that all parties must sign and have a copy given to. This lays out who pays for what and who’s responsible for what and inform the roommates that if they skip out on the lease before it’s up you and the other roommates can take legal action since they are not responsible for paying your part of the rent.