The second round.

First: This one was the other day Ok I really like this guy, he is awesome. I didnt like him at the beginning of the school year, he is new. But now I do. And I have liked him for about 2 weeks now. And my friend like him too. After I did. He has long blode hair and brown eyes. It’s not only his looks, I love his personallity, it’s funny and sweet. And when we were friends, we talked a lot and laughed together a lot but now that I like him it seems like everything went down hill, we dont talk I stare at him a lot and I feel stupid. He thinks im prissy thats what he calls me. But I don’t know what to say to him im very shy around him. But I used to not be. I used to be fine. We wud have fun in class but now I get the butterflies, and I dont know what to say.. What should I do?

Please help. I havent had a boyfriend in like ever (years) and I need help.

Thanks 4 your help.

Second:

I just found out my crush smokes. And I am starting easee back. Im not so butterlyie. Anymore. And feel more comfortable. I really like him and I don’t know if I should say this or not, but I think I luv him. But also I think smoking is the worst thang in the world to do..theres nothing good about them, they make your breath stink, teeth yellow fingernails yellow also. And my friend likes him too now. After me. And I don’t like it at all. And I really want to impress him. Hes skater. What shall I do? And earlier today he breathed in ym friends face, and was playing around like he was smoking. Because she asked him if he smoked and stuff. And she wanted to go by him and do it back but all his friends were with him. Is it normal to not want to do it in front of them? And latly my friend has been say your f*ing something like retarded or stupid or something. To me and I am starting to get sick of it because hses also smakking me too. Do you think its to get his attition or make him notice her? What should I do to her 4 doing it to me? Do you think this is rite to do this to me?

Please help I need it!!!

Answer #1

So, if I understand correctly, you like a boy that your friend also likes and she’s treating you poorly when you’re around him?

It does sound like she’s trying to get his attention, in all the wrong ways. A smart boy will look at her and think “if that’s how she treats her friends, I don’t want anything to do with her”. Tell your friend that you’re tired of her treating you this way - real friends don’t do that, and her reaction will prove to you whether she’s a true friend or not.

As for you “loving” him, I can assure you, it’s most probably infatuation and it does fade. Don’t go telling him something you’ll regret later.

Take your time and keep your eyes wide open. Things have a way of working out for the best.

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