Funadvice Logo
+ List
More Art, Writing & Literature Questions

Telling A Guy You Like Him: In A Letter?

These are a dime a dozen, but I’ll ask anyway. I’ve liked a guy for a year or so and I can’t say ‘hello’ without freezing up. I’ve tried to be subtle about it, but it’s not my strong point, according to friends and family. My best friend knows I like him and she’s offered to tell him, (since they’re cousins) but I don’t know if she should. Should I tell him, let her do it or write a letter?

Become an Expert →
Answer #1

Right, I’m totally in the same box, I really really like this guy, I have done the past 4 years, I thought I could just let it go you know, turn out I can’t.. I think he might just like me too, he always goes out of his way to speak, even just to say hello or bye at the end of the day, and if anyone is being rude or anything, he’s like “stop that punches“ He’s so lovely, and we get on great, but I’m just really self conscious, I don’t know how to approach it.. any suggestions?

Answer #2

I DONT EVEN KNOW IF MY GUY LIKES ME. AND ON TOP OF THAT HE IS SHY AND HE DONT TALK TO ME.AND ON TOP OF THAT HIS PARENTS ARE VERY STICT AND THEY PROBABLY DONT WANT ME TALKING TO HIM. BUT I LIKE HIM SO MUCH AND I CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM.

Answer #3

I’m having the same problem, his name is Justin and we talk but not like boyfriend-girlfriend. I’m in school still and don’t know what to do becouse I don’t know if he likes me. HELP!!!

Answer #4

First of all dont let you friend tell him that you like him.. He is her cousin and might not take her seriously. Writting a letter might be something to do but then you should have to talk to him about your feelings sooner or later.. I think you should tell him in person that you like him.. It will show him and you that your stronger then you think. Also it would show him that you would be willing to go outside you confort zone to show him that you have feelings for him..

I hope this helps

Answer #5

I know how you feel because I was like that but when I found out that he liked me I wrote him a letter saying that I liked him and I gave him my e-mail and number and… IT WORKED!!! he e-mailed me and now he e-mails me about every week! I feel so good now that I told him that I like him and now I feel so stupid that I was afraid to tell him I like him.

More Like This
Ask an advisor one-on-one!
Advisor

The Poster Guys

Art, Home Decor, Online Shopping

Advisor

Novels Tamil

Literature, Books, Entertainment

Advisor

Printbooks

Printing Services, Book Binding, Custom Printing

Advisor

1Plus1Equals2.com

Literature, Writing, Community

Advisor

Deborah Scannell Photography

Deborah Scannell Photography