I swear she hates me....

I swear it is so horrible I am crying. Something I never do. She (mom) told me to shut up when my brother was the one screaming. Why does she hate me so much? Its getting to be very unbearable…

Answer #1

Maybe..because she is your mom you might have similar personalities and therefore the things you don’t like about your own personality you might find irritating in her and vise versa? I have the same problem…there are days when we can’t have any sort of calm conversation without getting annoyed at each-other, but maybe you could try talk to her and try not to give out, just start all your sentences with ‘’i feel like’’ you hate me or whatever you want to say instead of saying ‘’you’’ hate me cause then she will take it a lot better and you can both be calm :) just try and be and honest as possible she is your mom after all :) hope i helped a bit anyway by saying at least ..that i can relate to your situation (the way my relationship with my mother sometimes gets brings me to tears tooo and i’m not the type who cry over nothing aswell) remember these are just my opinions, goodluck heep your head up ^.^ :)

Answer #2

every time i try to talk to her she lashes out and tells me to shut up…

Answer #3

was

Answer #4

do you mean every time recently or in general? :/

Answer #5

recently

Answer #6

awh :/ well maybe its just that you guys are going through a rough patch (lol i sound like i’m giving dating advise:L) I am like that with my mom too for the last year or so maybe..i think its just natural cause when you are a teen you are growing to be an independant person that gets to make their own decisions and parents find it hard not to think of you as a child and try to make your decision..that is me assuming you are a teen or almost one..? if things do get really bad like abusive go somewhere for help but id say its just normal teenage girl vs mom war hehe:)

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