How do I stop myself from feeling so jealous of the love my sister gets?

I have this sister India and she has always seemed to be better than me.Shes only 14 mounths older but my sister always gets the most attension and people like her more.Everyone seems to like her and thinks shes cool and that but noone is interested in me when shes around and she finds it fun to tell me my faults.I know i am a nicer person than her and i am smarter but it dousnt seem to matter when shes around.Even with my parents my dad has always play with ind and i use to be the one watchng on.With my mum she ways that she loves showing both off me coz im pretty. But i feel so useless when it comes down to india.She is so much better, she can play the guitar,bass and that and she is a great drawer but im nothing. I love her bu im so hareful over how much love she gets and whet iv never has like her.

Answer #1

Well by looking at you you seem a bit odd, not like most people. Is your sister the same way? If not maybe its cause most people are like her and under stand her more. so try and hang out with people who have the same interest and style as you people you know… that can relate to you! they can respect you for who you are and wont judge you so you wont feel jelous!

Answer #2

Yeah she is.She dousnt where make-up,dousnt wear dresses she dresses like and boy and when people thinks shes a boy she plays along.The one time she wore a dress to the prom and she was hot news for mounths their even after she left.She seems so much more cooler asnd everything she does is 10x better

Answer #3

Well you said ur smarter then her? well stay in school get good grades and youll get father in life then her, then youll have every ones attension your parents will be more proud of you then her! And if u go to college start new and i bet youll find friends!

Answer #4

But it still wont be good enuph.I have always been the smarter one but somehow Ind always gets more attension and love although the good stuff compared to hers if imense

Answer #5

It would help to just try and be yourself nothing is wrong with you just be yourself it’s fine.

Answer #6

Thanks :) I do try

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