Slept together but now what?

Okay this guy isn’t looking for a relationship and he doesn’t have romantic feelings for you like you do for him, he just wanted to sleep with you, nothing else. I understand that you’re infatuated with this guy, especially since you’ve never been involved with anyone else and you’re hoping that he feels the same way you do about him, but I’m 99% sure that it just isn’t going to happen. If he doesn’t contact you or doesn’t treat you like he wants to be exclusive then that’s that. You can try to tell him that you’d like to go out some time and tell him how you feel just to see how that goes though… But I think he’s just having fun being a single guy.

One aspect of casual sex I don’t see mentioned it how confusing it can be. Having sex is very intimate. You know what each other’s skin feels like, what they smell like, how they taste. You make yourself incredibly vulnerable to them and they to you. Then after all of this you go your separate ways. I always found it very awkward. “Hooking up” is having sex with someone without romance or expectations. You can keep hooking up with him if you want to but don’t assume that it will blossom into a romantic relationship; sometimes it does but more often it just leads to disappointment. If you are looking for more than just casual sex you should stop hooking up with him.

tell him you like him or what your feelings are but prepare to be disappointed. im a first year student at university and i know from experience that most guys my age around here only want one thing. it kinda sucks but thats how it is. you say he was your first everything and its totally normal to feel attached to him. but just know that if you’re going to continue hooking up, you might just end up feeling worse along the way. if you are looking for a relationship, then you should probably stop talking to this guy if he hasn’t made any moves yet or said anything about the two of you actually being together. guys are horn dogs

Be honest to your self !! If you are so uncomfortable then its time you tell him that u wanna move on !!

Being first does not mean that you be with someone unless u feel ur self with him!!