Should I tell him I slept with another guy?

My ex and I are considering getting back together. we broke up not to long ago, but we arent ready to give up. Well, in the meantime (it’s only been 2 weeks) I’ve slept with a good friend of mine from work. I wish I could say it was just once and I could just ignore it, but it wasnt. I think 4 or 5 times… I still want to be friends with this guy and I just know that if my ex and I get back together, he wont want me hanging out with him at all. So would it be better to not tell him?

Answer #1

If you were broken up then you were free to do what you wanted. From your letter I feel that it is better not to tell him your flirt meantime.

Answer #2

You don’t have to tell him it wouldn’t be considered wrong because if you two were broken up. That was none of his business.

I personally still would tell him cus I would someohow feel guilty. BUT the fact that you don’t HAVE to tell him should be comforting. right?

Answer #3

well if u want to tell him u can but its not like u were cheating on him or anything cause u and him were broken up at the time the sex happened

Answer #4

Technically you guys werent together but the question you should really be asking that if you guys are still into each other then how could you just have sex with your friend on regular basis within two weeks time. Hence are you really sure that you have strong feelings for your ex? i think its because you guys were together for considerable time hence u want him but i think you need to do introspection about your desires to get back.

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