Overcoming shyness?

hi me and my girlfriend have been together for 7 months and we are both shy. we can talk and stuff, but never have any physical contact. we both would like to hug,kiss and have contact, but are really shy! How do I overcome this shyness!(please dont say anything like just make the move)

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Answer #1

him slow dances always set the mood for that kind of thing because you have to get close so try going to a dance with her then after the song ends put your arm around her shoulder and just walk around. when its time to go hug her and keep a hold of her wast so she is close to you, after that just go for the kiss. That sometimes helps with the whole shyness thing so good luck

Answer #2

its ok to be slow. just holding hands and kisses are fine. just grab her hand while walking…or kiss her good night. you can do it.!

Answer #3

Your the guy! make the first move, girls don’t like to make the move we like it when guys are tuff, if you want to impress her

after a date, first kiss her on the forehead. the date after that start off by hugging and holding hand and give her a kiss on the cheek when you drop her off.

kissing a girl on the cheek is always cute, it sure gets a girl thinking about you, long after you leave.

hug her and tell her you love her, thats always gets a girls heart to melt

got move too fast, if its your first kiss, then it should just be a little peck on the lips at first, let her know, that your serious about her.

Answer #4

come on man! guys make the first move on everything! I know its hard, and I know that guys can get really shy, but you hug her or even give her a little kiss on the cheek… she will melt. tell her you love her if you do. let her know how serious you are about her. She will become a lot happier with the littlest things you do. do make your move too fast though… take it slow. make her want more.

XoX - Trish

Answer #5

weve slowed danced never thought about that thanx

Answer #6

we are both 13 (NO WE ARE NOT TOO YOUNG)

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