Should I tell this guy how I feel?

I’ve been married for 1 year but together 5 years. I’ve been having an affair for the past 8 months. Now I feel like I can’t live without him. I’ve been having intimate problems with my husband since the beginning but I thought it would change. My husband c.. to fast and I never finish. Well, this guy does all the right things that make me c.. What should I do?

Answer #1

You know, sometimes you need to follow your heart.

I know it seems wrong, leaving your husband for a man you’ve been unfaithful with, but if you’re not happy with your husband, then you’re not doing anyone any favours by trying to hold it together.

If this new guy is willing and ready to accept you into his life, then maybe it’s worth the risk.

For the record - I’ve been there, and I’ve been happier then ever after leaving my husband for the other man.

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