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Should I tell my hubby I slept with his brother before we met?

Well basically I went through a really tough time where I was suicidal and stuff and I used to babysit for this family. I used to look after a little girl and one day I was really down and her father comforted me. We ended up kissing. One thing lead to another and I really regret it 110%. I then met his brother and it was love at first sight from both of us. We got to know each other and we fell in love. We moved in together and got married. If I had known I would have fell in love with the baby’s uncle I would definately not have slept with his brother. I love my husband more than words could ever explain but I dont know whether I should come clean and tell him the truth. The only problem is I dont want to lose my husband and I dont want him to fall out with his brother I’m so confused and need some help Thanks in advance Jo x

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Answer #1

If you are going to tell him (since, I think his brother will anyway) I think you should have a conselor or someone there to listen and advise him/you (just to keep everything clear). If not, this could get messy. … just what I think though.

Answer #2

there are just some things that would do more harm then good, this would only help YOU feel better while harming so many other things in the process

Answer #3

Well, now that you say that, yes. You’re probably going to need your husband’s help to take care of this guy while “keeping the peace”. If you’re married and you’ve made it clear to this guy that you’re not interested, and he still doesn’t back off, you need to take the gloves off. Just make sure to get to your husband first because guys like his brother will often lie when they don’t get what they want. And it would look bad you trying to counter it with the truth afterward.

Answer #4

That is probably true but me and my husband are so close we are really happy but his brother always comes round our house and tries it on I have told him that I want nothing to do with him I only talk with him to keeo the peace between him and his brother I dont want to hurt anyone but is it worth telling my hubby or putting it behind us and get on with our lives as if it never happened. it was before me and my husband met. we have no secrets with each other but we both agreed what happened in our past relationships isnt important I just dont know what to do for the best I love my hubby dearly jo x

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