Should I tell him about his son?

I think it would be a good idea to tell him,if he wants to deny the child well it’s his lost not urs,it’s unfortunate that you have to go through this at your tender age,but a child is also a blessing so raise that child right with or without the father.Trust me he will want to be apart of your child life in the future when he sees how good he has turned out…good luck hun!!!

Yes because it feels like its right to tell him. yu don’t want your baby to find him and the dad doesnt know then he’l be sad or angry that he didnt no or helped out. Tell him. Hope it helps.

well I was pregnant at 14 and me and my ex didn’t get on well either. but I still told him and I gave him the choice to see his babies.he chose to me a dad. your ex should have the chance to be a dad as well. because when your child grows up they will be angry at you if you dint tell their father.

You’ve told him…unfortunately for him, simply denying the fact doesn’t make it untrue, nor will it make the baby go away.

I don’t know if you’re planning on keeping the child, or giving it up…that in itself might dictate what to do about “re-telling” him. If you’re giving the child up, then don’t put yourself thru that pain again…IF you are planning on keeping the child, you might have to wait until the babe is born, and “re-tell” the father via a letter from a lawyer. You can’t force him to take a place in the baby’s life, but he’s responsible for financial care…down the road financial help might be essential.

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yea..tell him… people should lern to face the facts!!! and he should too!!! but if he s a real a$$hole…I dont think that ll change anythin’’’ but who am I to tell!! :) so yea..tell em!!!

Use your best judgement - to avoid any drama now, you might want to wait till after you’ve moved in a certified letter (he would have to sign for) to ensure he knows (proof) - you’d have paperwork proof for childsupport.

hie im zuze and think you shld tell him because you will be doin it 4 your child despit the differences you hv w your x.one way or the other your child is gng 2 ask abt his dad. evryone deserves 2now there father even if the dad is gud or stupid.

You should tell the your ex that he is going to be a father and if he wants to be in the childs life he can and if he doesn’t want to then he has no respect.

I mean, I have tried to tell him, but he just denies everything. its hurtful. and I have no idea how to get him to understand.

you should tell him no matter what he has a right to know he may want to be in the childs life he may not if he does you could get custardy worked out if he doesnt he will just have 2 pay money 2 help you raise the child

he has the right to know from there its between you guys

tell him

Tell him, so maybe he’ll change, you’ll both get along better, and he can be responsible about the whole thing.

You should try to text him that and try to stay away from him as much as possible.

tell him to face the god damn truth!!!

I beleive that “yes” yo should tell the father…for once you did not create that baby urself or like people say “wit your finger” lol so yes you should probably involve him lol regardless of your situation with the babys father, he is the dad and your child has every right to have a relationship with both his parents just as equally… a child needs both his parents in order to be happy…I know so may kids (including myself when I was a child) that suffer because they dont have a father figure in their lives and feel like failures…its a chain that keeps going… if the father does not want to be involved…then simple: PUT HIS BI** AS ON CHILD SUPPORT AND KEPP ON MOVING!! LOL all the end it will be his lost lmao