should I let him finger me?

hi its really up to you. do you want him to do it? how do you feel about it? if you are happy about it , let him do it if not say no. it is your body you decide. toni

Nooo! He is just trying to get into your parents hunn. Not until you are both sure yall will committ to eachother. God wouldn’t want that. It just isn’t rightt. If you want to message me about something, you are very welcomeee. I’d be glad to help you out or answer any questions. Just please watch out for yourself.. :)

yeah I understand what everyone is saying..like thats exactly what I thought too but iduno its different because 4 years ago we went out and ever since then weve been really good friends and would dance at all the dances together and he told me he would ask me out soon..but the thing is that hes not trustable at all and sometimes a jerk. now I just dont know what to do about him like for the way I feel about him..and were going to the same highschool too so I cant get away from him.

Hun, If he really liked you, he would ask you to be his girlfriend, not ask to finger you! When a boy asks to finger you, he does NOT like you in the right way, and letting him will only show him how easy you are. This boy doesnt care about you, or respect you, he just wants his kicks off you so he can go brag to his friends what he got. NEVER give a boy anything physical without being in a commited relationship! They will only use you, then move on to the next easy, naive girl!

He just wants to get some. Trust me, if a guy isn’t dating you and he still wants to be sexual with you.. he’s not looking for a relationship. He’s looking for the physical aspect of it. Just because you’ve liked him for four years isn’t a reason to do that with someone. Especially if you don’t even know FOR SURE if he likes you back. “Apparently he likes me back” yeah.. if you tell him you’ll let him finger you, of coarse he’s going to say that he likes you back to get what he wants. Be smart :)

Never do anything unless you are in a commited relationship!!!

Girl your barely starting high school and people wanna finger each other? That’s gross I would never let ANYONE do that to me. Once he does it he is going to tell everyone and you are going to ruin your reputation. I wouldn’t do it if I were you. People will call you names and you will regret letting someone do that to you regardless of how long you liked him.

Sex was NOT made to be saved for marriage, people. Having a guy shove his p*enis in your for 5 minutes wasnt meant to be saved. It was meant to be enjoyed and had whenever your ready. Dont torture yourself, people.

if you really like him and he likes youll he’ll wait untill you really want him to x

hahaha yeah i agree..but what am i sapposed to do when its my first time and my bf is WELL EXPIRENCED like with 6 or 8 girls!! lol it doesnt bother me tho cas he knows how to pleasure me as in WOW he knows my body and his fingers are so AMAZING but idk what im sapposed to when we go to have sex…should i let him take over??? oh and i want to f*uck him soo bad and he feels the same