Should I go to homecoming with my friend's ex even if she wants me to?

I am 15 and one of my really good friends said that this guy from cbhs -that is friends with my group- is going to ask me to the cbhs homecoming. I love him and he is very cool n way nice! This is also the same guy that dated one of my friends in our group for like a year and a half- she dumped him like3 months ago. She now has a boyfriend. I heard that he likes me- but i dont believe it! I dont want to say yes b\c i dont want to hurt his ex gf- but she is TOTALLY fine with it and pleaded me to go and told me it would be a lot of fun. I would say yes except that i dont want to date him- just go on a date with him to the dance. i heard he is going to ask me this friday at the cbhs football game. I want to go but i just want to know if that would be leading him on if i just wanted to go on a date n not date him.

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Answer #1

nooo I dont think soo.. Thats a Nooo Nooo.. your friend might say she dont care.. But, deep down she really does.. and chances are she will be pissed..

Answer #2

I think you are already on the right path by being honest with your girlfriend and communicating your concerns. Why not do the same with the guy concerned? Tell how you feel and that you would love to go with him but that you don't want him to think you are leading him on. That way you feel good because everything is clear and he feels good because he can make his decision based on how he feels about it. In a perfect world we would all make the extra effort to amke things clear and that way wouldn't worry so much!!

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