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My guy friend is dating this girl who is not a good quality person. She flirts with all his friends when hes not around and gets mad whenever he talks to me. She is constantly trying to control him and manipulating the other boys. She also only talks about herself and it’s stuff that no one else can even contribute to. me and a different friend of mine have noticed it and are getting fed up with her. I understand where his girlfriend is coming from but I dont want him or our friendship getting hurt by her. He can’t seem to see what we see at all and it’s been going on for weeks now. Any advice on dealing with her?

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Answer #1

I have had this problem with a friends girlfriend. Try just not to notice her or give her much attention because that is what she’s looking for. If your friend thinks you’re being rude or something, explain to him that she just isn’t the same person behind his back. Hmm not quite sure what else to say.

Answer #2

Well your going to have to face that HE does not want to see it and that is also a problem. Also keep in mind that this girl is probably this way for a reason, girls act out like this forattention which usually means something in the past happens and they want to be appreciated and paid attention to by many people. Your going to have to let him realize it himself, just tell him it bothers you and just don’t go around her but be the bigger person and be civil about it.

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