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Should I forgive and forget?

well 3 months ago now this 16-year-old di(k-head started hitting on my girl. they were friends for a month when i noticed a change in her. Eventually i got her to tell me she liked him and so i dumped her. if it wasn’t for him we would still be together. should i forget about it and move on or go out and kill the bas+ard?

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Answer #1

Well… trust me, I know exxxactly how you are feeling. Obviously you don’t want to actually kill him. You can’t prevent who comes along in your girlfriend’s life. You can’t control who she meets. Think about your relationship for a sec… what was wrong with you guys that caused her to suddenly see something in this guy? Don’t worry, I’m not putting any blame on you for any of this. How long had you been with your girlfriend? I know that everyone in a relationship still has eyes.. but if she was really happy with you, then she shouldn’t have ever felt for another guy like that. Chances are, it is just a temporary crush. Obviously she doesn’t know all the little things about him that she knows about you, and those are very treasured things to know about someone in a relationship. To be honest, I was in a strikingly similar dilemma… funmail me if you want to talk about this more.

Answer #2

Dear spazlix, You stated if it wasn’t for this guy we’d still be together…NO. If your relationship wasn’t strong enough to withstand this guy it wasn’t strong enough to withstand any guy. So the problem isn’t her or him. Face it this relationship wasn’t meant to be. Do you not think that couples meet many in their relationships that peek their interest? Of course but the strength of the relationship is what keeps them together…great lesson leaned I hope. Move on and enjoy casual dating…you aren’t ready to commit yet. Sue…good luck

Answer #3

SHE decided to like another guy. You can’t be mad at HIM for that… move on…

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