Forgive and forget?

I had extreme feelings for this guy and I thought he liked me back. This wasn’t just me thinking he did; he told me, showed me, etc. I felt like a princess who just found her prince charming. We were like besties and so much more too! He had asked me out but I wanted to wait. Vice versa with me to him. As I waited for him; I was ready to let go until one day, he suddenly asked me out. I was so happy. I was just out of my freaking mind happy. And I thought we were going to last a long time. He was perfect in my eyes. Until this one night, he came out of nowhere and said we needed to talk. He told me he was sorry but that he thought we could just be close friends. And that he tried his hardest to like me but never could. I felt used; at a state of just wanting to cry and never stop. And he had the nerve to say he didn’t use me. After leading me on; saying he loved me; showing me the affection a boyfriend would show, and he says he didn’t use me? I finally came up with the decision to try and be his friend because he requested that we stay the way we used to be. He acts weird, says nothing, and is nothing like he usually is. I know he’s weirded out by this situation; but I’ve tried my absolute best and given him my all. While he’s done what? Apologized two times and mingle around with other girls?

Should I forgive and forget? Or should I literally just move on with Life, leaving people like him behind? And to the boys/men/lads/etc; Do guys really just act like this? Will I meet more of these? Or do you think it was a rare act of cruelness?

Thank you for your replies.

Answer #1

u must learn 2 accept your friendship wit dis man and move on and life if you continue 2 dwell on this mn any longer you will inevitably hurt urself think of it dis way at least he was honest bout his feelin o you can b a lil sympathetic 4 that besides its not like he used you 4 sex or anything of course its going to b hard 4 him because he really wanted 2 love you but his heart wouldnt let him the mind and heart are 2 totally different things I know it might not b easy 4 you 2 just let go like that but you must learn 2 move on and save urself 4rm deppresion you dont have 2 not speak 2 him just give him sum space 4 a while and try datin other people when both of you r in different relationships then it will take your mind off things and only then will yall be able 2 move on in lyf as friends or just wait till he is ready 4 a realationship in da meantime just talk 2 him try talkin 2 him 1st and if that dont work just do wut I mentined before

Answer #2

hey well this guy seems like a jerk sounds like my ex actually I deffinately think you shud move on and forget about him

im finding that most guys are like that or maybe im just finding the wrong ones.

I think maybe you shud forget about relationships concentrate on your life and the right guy wil come

but deffinately forget about this guy if hes acting this way it will be better for u

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