Should I change the way I act?

We could all sit here and tell you that you need to change or you’re headed nowhere. But how much do you need to change?

Just maybe find the root of your problems and try to correct those things.

You think school is too easy? Go see if you can transfer to advanced classes. Lots of schools have programs like that. (it will look better on a job or college application too if that’s what you decide to do with your life.)

You cheat on your girl a lot… well do you love your girl? If you don’t love her, then just quit leading her on and break up with her. Date around. everyone today thinks they only have to date one person and that’s it… well unless there’s a ring on your finger, guess what? you don’t have to. Just make sure everyone involved knows you’re not exclusive.

The whole cussing thing, probably makes you look retarded, which will enforce stereotypes against you. And that will just make life harder. “That young man cusses so much, his mother probably did a real crap job of raising him.”

Maybe you don’t need to change all that much, maybe you’re just reacting negatively to what’s really going on.

My advice though… stop rolling with the gangs before it doesn’t become an option anymore. I know you think they’re your friends and all, and they probably are your friends, but if they start to get in the way of you living your life, or you deciding what to do for yourself, then they’re only thinking about themselves and not you.

ok… lets think about this…

you shouldn’t want to change for society or anyone else but you.

BUT… think about where you want to be in 5-10 years. And really think hard about it. How are you going to get there? Do you want to have a house and a family? Will cheating on your girl get you a house and a family? Do you want a good job? Will being in a gang, and failing school look good on a resume?

also think about this… in 5-10 years, or when you’re 50… will the instant gratification you are getting right now with the things you do be worth it later?

Choose what you want to do with your life, and then make decisions that will take you to your goals.

Just by asking your questions here, there must be something inside you telling you that you’re going in the wrong direction.

well its really up to you if you want to make a change for yourself… changing your ways can sometimes be good or bad if you know what I mean but if you want to change go for it… do what you feel is right but it takes time to do so you cant change for one day to another it takes time and patients..

Well, the most important question is what do YOU think you should do? Do you like the kind of person that you are? Are you proud of the way you behave?

If not, then you have your answer.

I dont know. like am super smart. but school suck. so I dont try. it not hard enough for me. I like the crazy type of life. where action is from day to night.

I dont know. like am super smart. but school suck. so I dont try. it not hard enough for me. I like the crazy type of life. where action is from day to night.

If you don’t know if you want to change or not…you won’t.

Pain is usually the instigator for fundemental changes…and I think you have some pain headed your way in the future…Your girl might dump ya, your anger might get ya put in jail, or beat up badly…the gang might kill ya…THEN you’ll do some changing.

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That’s fine, if it’s what you like, but keep in mind that one of these days you’re going to grow old, and if you have nothing in your pocket but dust and memories of doing crazy things, you’re going to have a lot of trouble getting on in this world.

All the people you have hurt along the way are going to be the only ones who can help you…and they most likely won’t.

I would change. In my mind, YOU SUCK

Headed down a road to nowhere in Life…change definitely needed.