Should I ask him to marry me?

I have been married twice before and so has my boyfriend I’m 33 and my b.f is older than me we both have said neither one of us wants to get married again but he has mentioned a few things that makes me think he has been thinking about it. I have known him for almost 13 years and through it all we always ended up together I want to try that marriage thing 1 more time should I ask him?

Answer #1

well if he dont want to go through gettin hurt agian and neitrher do just say that yall r married but dont hurt ur self agian cause i kno how it feels to keep gettin hurt and hurt time and time agian so just keep doin wat yall r doin and if he wants to marry then he will ask u

Answer #2

If he has been hinting it, maybe you should talk about it 1st before just asking in case you misunderstood. Bring marriage up and tell him you are considering it with him again and what he thinks and feels about it.

Answer #3

“After two, look at you?” Before either of you should risk a third marrage you both need to do the work of dealing with your innerselves and the root causes of your two prior failures. Marriage takes two people being in agreement on the issues that have been the pot holes that previous relationships have fallen into. A good marriage therapist could help if you get stuck. Work on these 4 F’s. Faith, Family, Finances and Fidelity. Those are the 4 most comon areas of problems. Spend time talking about these and how you feel on each of them and when you can come to unity on all of them you may be ready to move forward with confidence that you will not fail again. Good Luck.

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