Should a guy have to make all the conversation?

Hey everyone.

I’ve been with my girlfriend for 2 months. I always have to make all the conversation and ask her questions/bring up conversation topics. She never attempts to make conversation or ask me anything. She only talks if I open my mouth first. It’s always exclusively my fault if we don’t have an interesting time together because of this and I feel under constant stress. She often gets mad if I ask her the wrong thing/bring up bad conversation topics in her eyes.

Should a girlfriend make conversation with her guy and want to talk with him/try to be engaging around him? I’ve told her how I feel and she just gets angry.

Thanks

Answer #1

chances are she might just be nervous around you… tell her that you what to know who she is, if she’s not responding then it sort of speaks for itself

Answer #2

no you don’t have to in my relationship I have to or hell yell and get all pissed and poop if you want her to tlk just be like babe come on say sumthin bt if shes like my boyfriend shell be like shut the fuc up you effin say sumthin lol or you know I don’t wanna deal wit you ill hit you up later and leave lol yes I know I have a horrible boyfriend bt he pleases me if you know what I mean if you please her sexually you don’t always have to be the nicest guy out ther my boy definently wears the pants in our relo and its bout time you do too lol and my boyfriend gets mad like her if I say sumthin he don’t like I once asked him if he had a blanket and he hung up on me and then the next time I cn him he gave me very painful pleasure answer my questions!!!

Answer #3

Maybe its time to tell her how you feel and if she gets mad at you tell her you think the relationship is not worth having. if she cares she will try harder and if not then your better off without her. x

Answer #4

Yes girlfriends should also try to keep the conversation ball rolling. If you’re not happy with her then maybe you should move on. Do not feel guilty about having a “not interesting time together”. You are NOT responsible for all the topics of conversation.

Answer #5

You know what?! There are a lot more interesting and intellengent girls out there who’d appreciate someone like you, someone willing to have a decent conversation and want to know about their respective. Every relationship should be 50/50, and you have to work at them too. It sounds like you’re both in different places in this relationship, give her the chance to chase you. Make her do the running around - organizing meet-ups and dates, etc. If she’s still expecting you to do all the work, well you’ll see that this really isn’t something worth hanging on to!

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