She's Still on my mind.....

I was friends with this gal for 2 years.. we finally started dating for about month and a had fun.But I was too nice to her and she lost interest in me, so we decided to break up. I tried to work things out but she said we can’t go back to the way we were at the start. Its been a month now and I still can’t get her out of my head. I want her back and to make it work this time. WHAT THE HELL CAN I DO???…. shes on my mind almost all day.. everyday…. SOME PLS HELP ME………….. Please…….

Answer #1

Dear scrubsguy, Did she tell you, you were too nice to her and that is why she wanted to break up? If she didn’t it wouldn’t be something you should assume. Women like to be treated well and like to be the center of her mans universe. If she said NO she doesn’t want to continue in a relationship then it is over. We can’t make others want us and we shouldn’t want to do that. Her being on your mind is normal but painful especially if you aren’t really sure why you broke up. You have to move on, there is absolutely no way this relationship should start up again. A relationship is when two people want each other…this is not the case here. But there is someone who is out there waiting for you and now that you are available to find that person you will no doubt find your true love. Sue….good luck

Answer #2

There isnt much you can do to make someone fall for you. If she doesnt want to be with you, you cant force her. Just give i some time, atleast she can say that you were always nice and sweet and never an ass to her and maybe in time she will realise what she lost and come back. Right now just be there for her and be her friend, let her know you will always be there for her and just give it some space. Some girls just get scared that when a guy is to nice they get freaked out and run away.

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