Sex before marriage

Having sex before, your married is not bad. people on here saying shes going to go to hell if she were to have sex before, she was married. Get real. No ones perfect waiting until your married is a joke, marriages hardly work out these days I agree to having sex if your truly in love with someone, you will know when the time is right your heart will tell you.

u don’t have 2 conversse you re sin 2 the priste because he isn’t the one that forgives u. you just ve to pray 2 GOD & ASK HIM 4 FORGIVENESS & HE LL FORGIVE U!!:) AMEN

“I feel you I went so far as to have a child out of wedlock and I wish I had waited too but god is a forgiving god just ask for forgiveness you can talk to god he loves you”

That’s why he sends you to a place of eternal pain, all because you don’t believe in him because there is no proof.

WATCH OUT FOR THE LOGIC!!!

There’s nothing wrong with premarital sex. You don’t need to feel guilty about it, and you don’t need to confess. Your religious ideas are the source of your problems, not the solution to them.

Dont worry Hun if you had sex once there is something called a “second virgin” if you onlty do it once, thats just once. The Priest will not beat you down to the holy ground I’m sure he knows those humane urges like anybody else. Its ok dont stress girl kay?

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you cant get it back, once its gone, its gone. and you dont have to confess it to anyone except to God. pray and ask for forgivness and be honst bout it and he will forgive you.

Why would you regret it or want to erase it? You were in love at the time; you were with someone who cared about you and who you cared for in turn. I would call that a pretty good, and memorable first time.

No.

You can’t become a virgin again, and you can’t erase that you did that. Instead of trying to act like it never happened, learn from it.

Well if I was in that situation I would (like any other christian person) just pray confessing to god that you have sinned and you PROMISE to stay sullaviant( I just know I spelled that wrong).

Don’t feel ashamed. As long as you were both consenting then so be it. Humans are sexual creatures.

I feel you I went so far as to have a child out of wedlock and I wish I had waited too but god is a forgiving god just ask for forgiveness you can talk to god he loves you

Fixed it for you sunshine, don’t mind the warning mail, it’s automated.

anythin thats to do with sex goes in l&r

you gave your virginity to someone you once loved. you didnt just meet him or get drunk or anything like that, you truly loved him and I think there is nothing wrong with that

you don’t have to confess your sins to a priest, just pray and confess them to God… most Christians believe that you can in a way regain your virginity from God… just pray and ask him to restore your virginity, and from then on out, it’s your decision…

we all make mistakes, it’s part of being human. I don’t know what religion you are, so I will try to explain this, hoping I don’t say anyhting wrong. you say you go to church, right? well, I know you’re scared to confess your sins the way they do in your church, but you will feel better afterward. if it’s a person you’re comfortable talking with, that’s the #1 thing I recommend doing. or, you can pray about it; that’s another way of confession. I’m just glad that you realize your mistake and you won’t be like mos tof the other girls that are out in society today; selling their bodies. you’re on the right track, and I’m glad that you’re thinking the way you are. if you need any help or support, or just someone to talk to, feel free to let me know. I’m always glad to help. peace, Ben

theres nothing wrong with sex before marrige

Forgiveness for what? She hasn’t done anything wrong.

so screw the priest…

You can be chaste from here on out.

Sex isnt a bad thing. Theres no reason a prist or anyone to “forgive” you.

The ideal situation is to save yourself for that one partner that you will be with forever, however, it is not always possible to live up to that ideal, even if it is the best. God does not cast us away, when we blow it, he will help us, when we seek him, and he will forgive us when we ask. Forgiving ourselves, sometimes is the hardest thing we have to do. And once we make the decision to have sex, nothing can undo that, and even if and when we ask for forgiveness, it does not cancel the consequences…

We sometimes bring children into this world, that we are not ready or prepared to care for.

We nearly always experience guilt or shame, for our actions.

We can acquire an std that we will have to live with for the rest of our lives.

And we do not have that special first time, experience with our true love, when and if he comes on the scene.

So, having said all of that, we are to strive to wait… however, if we fail, we are not to fall into condemnation, but, to quickly ask for forgiveness,(and this can be done between you and God, you do not have to have a priest, you have Jesus, as your mediator ) and then, to be able to forgive ourselves… and to learn… like the post says above… from our mistakes.

God be with you.

You got to be kidding!

I’ll admit that I did it many times.