Would sex after almost 3yrz of a relationship ruin or strenghten a relationship at da age of 17 and both in love?

I agree, if it were love, and you are sure that both of you are ready, and that he wouldnt leave you afterwards, then it could stregnthen you. However, I have known too many relationships where after they have sex, their relationship becomes purely physical and then they break up

Think, beofre you do anything, make sure it is love. Make sure you wont regret it the next morning. Do what is best for you, best of luck.

yea thats wat i dnt want it to become all physical dats y i havent done it even if ive wanted to lol i kno he wudnt leave me but i just want it to b more den da usual just about sex relationship

thats the exact same reason why i havent done it with my boyfriend either. :}

finally sum1 gets me lol

I would say, if you do chose to do it, amke sure you guys go out lots too, and spend lots of time doing other things too instead of always just going back to the bedroom. I mean youve done it for so long already anwyays :}

WTF!?? damn 3 years and you guys havent had sex?? talk about not putting out! lol no im kidding. uumm well, it all depends on how u feel about the situation. personaly i think thats something u guys should have done after the first year or maybe less but to each there own. talk it over with him