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How can I confront my Dad about this secret?

All my family seem to keep secrets! My mum lied to my brither about his real father! All of my family hide somthing because I here them talking quietly thinking that I cant here! My suspicion began to grow when I found letters saying that my dad has two other sons while he sais i’m his only child! I can’t confront him because i’m scared what will happen! If I confront him he might never trust me again for going through his personal things! If I don’t it’ll eat at me forever! please help!!

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Answer #1

well meybe you could just drop hints that you might know so he will be a little less surprized when you ask him. or you could ask your mom if she knows anthing about it. but he may also have a reason not to tell you your mom may not even know and if you told her that could ruin things between them so you might do a little more investigating before you try and confront him

Answer #2

My mum and Dad arn’t together, they hate eachother and I don’t get on with my mum because she’s a alcoholic! The only person I can ask is my dad and i think i might leave it until i’m older

Answer #3

just have a talk with your family im sure theyll understand

Answer #4

Ask yourself - Will anything GOOD come from this being revealed ?..if the answer is no, don’t do it..use your best judgement.

Good luck !!

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