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Rude awakening

Thanks for the advise on the previos question. I still love my husband but he acts like a jerk, everything in the world revolves around him and he can go around chatting up girls half his age and he already had 3 affairs with 16 year olds he is 35. Was I still wrong falling in love with another man. We cannot get divorced as he has something against me.

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Answer #1

The man should be in jail I would get rid of him. Hes a pervert. they could be someone you knows kids next time.

Answer #2

So just because he does something, makes it okay for you to do? Thats like saying “that guy shot someone, so its okay for me to shoot someone now”. That just makes you sink to his level. You can do better then that. If hes out doing that kind of thing, you need to end the marriage. Its obviously not working out and after all that damage it would be so hard to put the pieces back together. If hes doing things with 16-year-olds then hes a nasty predator. Its still not right for you to have an affair too, even though he did it. It gives you the right to leave him and never look back. Do you really want to go on in life having to cheat on your husband to make your self feel better? Think about where you want your life to be in 10-years and think if that will happen with him in your life. You might as well leave now and find someone worth spending your life with.

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