Do you think this is rude?

my boyfriend and I have been going out for 6 months and were both virgins but he keep on asking me to send him naked pics of me and when I told him no he begged me and I said to him if you loved me you would’nt force me to do something I don’t want to do and he said ok and a couple minutes later he asked me the same question so the I sadi to him you been lieing to me this whole time havent you and he said about what I said you lied when you told me you loved me and he cried for a couple minutes and then he said he loves me with all his heart and he want our 6 monnths to on for 60 years and more and I thought that was sooo sweet so I told my cuzin and she said both of us are stupid and she’s better that that with her boyfreind don’t you think that’s rude or is that just me?

Answer #1

dont fall into the circle he is just trying to to get you softened up dont listen to him if he did love you he woundnt pressure u

Answer #2

it is a bit rude but shes voicing her opinion your boyfreind should be pressuring you into sending naked pictures of yourself and you shoulnt have to put up with ityou need to get it through his head talk to him in person, and bluntly tell him that your not going to send him naked pics…period. a relationship is based oon trust, comitment, and comunication the two of you need to comunicate more and talk about what is okay and what isnt in your relationship

Answer #3

yes that is kind of rude but your boyfriend shouldn’t b trying to pressure you into anything that you don’t want to do…realize what he could do with those pictures and not to b neg. or anything but you two probably won’t b together forever…when I was your age I thoughti wa going to b with the guyi was with forever and we even dated for 2 1/2 years but ya know what…it ends…it’s the hard reality of life…don’t do what you don’t feel comfortable doing

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