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Relationship question please help.

Ok I was with my ex for about a year(guy 1) and a half, he lives in france and I live in england so its hard, I see him once a year but anyways I really love him and I think hes the one etc etc but a little while ago I suggested a break because long distance love is help. well I met someone else(guy 2) who I was with for a month and I lost my virginity to him…regretably. well now I’m going to france to see guy 1 in december because he still likes me and I love him so thats why it ended with guy 2 but I feel strangely guilty. guy 1 didn’t know about guy 2, and technically its not cheating because we were on a break. should I tell him when I see him or not? Its really getting to me I dont know why I wish I could have lost my virginity to him instead what shall I do I want to spend the rest of my life with guy 1 xxx

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Answer #1

He sort of needs to know but then again it will probably crush him when you tell him you let someone else take your virginity and you only went with the guy for a month… that was something special you took away from guy 1 he will never have that special chance to be your first …

Answer #2

I say go for it

Answer #3

I say go for it

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