can someone give me relationship advice?

But if I text her don’t you think that will show weakness in me considering the fact that it would mean I can’t give her space? Because I think her definition of ‘space’ is no communication at all. Maybe I should just keep my distance and hopefully when the year settles down for her she will be ready. I just don’t understand how someone can tell you deep secrets about their life and open up to you and tell you how much you mean to them and then the next day, totally forget you. Is that even humanly possible? Its a harsh world. Thanks for the reply.

But if I text her don’t you think that will show weakness in me considering the fact that it would mean I can’t give her space? Because I think her definition of ‘space’ is no communication at all. Maybe I should just keep my distance and hopefully when the year settles down for her she will be ready. I just don’t understand how someone can tell you deep secrets about their life and open up to you and tell you how much you mean to them and then the next day, totally forget you. Is that even humanly possible? Its a harsh world. Thanks for the reply.

I don’t think it shows weakness it shows you are thinking about her. Just give it some time, she probably wants the space so she can think about things, like you said she just said she has/had a boyfriend and she probably wants to make sure she is making the right decision

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To me it seems as though she’s torn between the two of you and that’s why she’s asking to be left alone. Having no contact will allow her to think things through and see how not having you around makes her feel. Hopefully she’ll realize that she misses you and doesn’t want to be without you since you seem to like her a lot. If in case she doesn’t and it seems like its taking her way too long than you can ask for an answer but until then you’ll simply have to give her space. Good luck!

Its weird because she doesnt ever talk about him and I never hear anything about them. It seems as though its not really about him. I think it could be that she wants time with her friends before they leave without having to think about me. I could be completely wrong. But I know I can be there for her and I like her very much. I’ve never heard anything good said about her boyfriend, yet she insists on staying. Ive had my fair share of faults, but I know I’m a good guy for her and I want to be with her. The feeling that I get when I think of being forgotten by such a beautiful person is really killing me. I just hope everything turns out.

Its weird because she doesnt ever talk about him and I never hear anything about them. It seems as though its not really about him. I think it could be that she wants time with her friends before they leave without having to think about me. I could be completely wrong. But I know I can be there for her and I like her very much. I’ve never heard anything good said about her boyfriend, yet she insists on staying. Ive had my fair share of faults, but I know I’m a good guy for her and I want to be with her. The feeling that I get when I think of being forgotten by such a beautiful person is really killing me. I just hope everything turns out.

Just because she does not talk about him does not mean that internally she has written him off. Maybe she’s afraid of sharing those feelings with you because they will turn you away? We don’t know what she’s fighting within herself so we have to assume that she’s trying to figure out what she’s going to do. It’s hard, I get it. But the last thing you want to do is scare her away by being pushy. Simply give her the space that she asked for. That’s all you can do now.

Thank you.

You are very welcome :)

You are very welcome :)