Real life helpers

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lol

I have someone living in my house right now that I bailed out of jail and I’m trying to help her fix the mess she made of her life.

You tell me.

I’m studying to be a counselor, so hopefully I’m a good helper (not advisor though… a therapist is not there to give advice)

Only if I am asked, I never caim to be a doctor, just grounded and good sense. So yeah when I was younger more question’s and advice were given, but as you get older most people can choose what is right for them, and they will just ask me what I think, Example- friends of mine just started swinging, I told them 90% of the time this leads to someone getting hurt, she said no, her and her husband have been together for about 35 years, I went to work lastnight and found our after being at that job for 26yrs she up and quit. I e mailed her and she met another guy and left her husband this past weekend Did not matter what I told her, at her age she made the choice she thought was right and it stay may be, but she won’t tell that right now because things are a mess. So people need to do what they feel is right, We are not listening to our Own instict anymore, you need to let your feelings and mind guide you.