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Was this rape and could I be pregnant (continued)?

ok I know I already post this but some people think I’m making up the story because I don’t have much details but it is true this happened yesterday after school so here is the story and I’m going to try to give much info as possible …Ok me and a boy lets call him Brian been talking for a while now. And I really like him. But that s not the problem the problem is that today after school some boy named jose got my cell phone and told me if I wanted it back to go and get it so I did. and he took me to his cousins house and then he when to a room and I followed him. I didn’t think he would do anything to me because I know him very well and we were friend at least thats what I thought .once we got in a room he pushed me to the bed and started kissing me I wasn’t letting him kiss me so I kept on turning my head to different sides. After that he took off my shirt sucked on my tities then he fingered me I was trying to get his hand away but I couldn’t he was too strong. ( he was also holdin my hands ) after that since he was on top of me and it was hard to get away when you in the position I was he carried me and somehow put my pants down and thats when it happened . I really don’t know if he used a condom but he said he did but I don’t believe him and it really hurt because of two reason ONE because I didn’t want to do it and I was trying to get away and TWO because it was my first time. also he got a girl pregnant who is my age and she already has the baby. and guys I’m not making this story up trust me I don’t have time to sit in front of a computer making up stories I don’t see the point of that. Now the boy that I liked, Brian is really mad at me and doesn’t want to talk to me I tried explaining to him that it wasn’t my fault but he still doesn’t want to talk to me. he said there are many ways to stop him from doing what he did to me. and that is true but the boy was stronger than me ..I also told one of my best friend about the problem. so know . what should I do? and could I possibly be pregnant since it was my first time? .WHAT ARE THE SYMPTOMS OF KNOWING YOUR PREGNANT RIGHT AT THE MOMENT IT HAPPEN BECAUSE WHEN I GO TO THE BATHROOM I SEE THIS RED OR BROWNISH STAIN IN MY PANTIES I CANT SEE THE COLOR THAT GOOD BECAUSE IT IS VERY LIGHT. I DON’T KNOW IF ITS BECAUSE IT WAS MY FIRST TIME OR IT CAN BE VERY SERIOUS. PLEASE HELP ME.

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Answer #1

Ok. I was raped about a year ago, and I know how it is. When you are being raped you are too scared to do anything. It’s easy to say “I would be fighting with all my might if a guy was on me” if you haven’t been raped and don’t know what it is like. Since you are saying that you were raped I am going to beleive you. When you are typing you can’t show emotion so it’s not like anybody could tell how you are feeling at the moment. We wouldn’t know if you were sobbing or laughing. But you NEED to tell sombody NOW. Take this from a person who has been raped, it is better to tell now. It WILL be hard, but you need to do this. I got pregnant in result to the rape, and had twin girls. I did not give them up for adoption or have an abortion. I really don’t know any symtoms because I was tested right away. But you NEED to tell your parents or any other responsible adult who you TRUST, RIGHT NOW.

Answer #2

The problem we’re all having is how calm you are about it. You seemed to be more concerned about the boy you like and how he feels. YOU WERE RAPED! Why was it so important for you to tell Brian what happened, and not the authorities, or an adult?

It doesnt matter that he is/was a so-called friend of yours. WHY DIDNT YOU SCREAM? If some guy was forcing himself on me, i would fight him, with every strength i had. I would scratch, kick, and scream at the top of my lungs! It should NEVER have gotten past him kissing you. Why did he carry you, and where? You should have fought him at that point so he wouldnt have been able to hang on to you. Did you say NO, or we’re you just being alittle apprehensive? I mean, yes he probably was stronger, but did he have a weapon that you were afraid he was going to hurt you?

This is something that needs to be reported. Why arent you doing that? You are making light of it, which leads us to believe, its not that big of deal to you! Who cares if Brian is mad, and doesnt believe you. This isnt about him………or is it???

Answer #3

The point is you got your priorities messed up in your last post. You didn’t even mention anything about rape until I mentioned the word - THEN you changed the title of your question and now you made this post complete with the little details (and a suspiciously mocking title). I’m almost sorry I gave you the idea to pose as a victim.

After reading this post, I’ve come to the conclusion that you didn’t resist much. This Jose boy (aka Walter) has only two hands. Unless he also has the body of Arnold Schwarzenegger (which I doubt because if he’s your age and probably just started puberty), you could’ve fought back - and gotten away - starting from the second he was kissing you. In your last post, you also stated that you “had sex,” which means it was pretty much consensual.

Now if you were really raped, how did Alexis even know about it? Rape is a crime. Walter couldn’t be the one bragging about it to the whole school because he could get into SERIOUS trouble - unless he happens to be stupid, that is. And if it was rape, you should be reporting this to the police, not to strangers on the Internet. He already got a girl pregnant, you said? Was it rape, too? Did the girl not have he sense to tell anyone that she had been raped? What kind of a neighborhood do you live in, serious?

In conclusion, I don’t believe that you were raped. All of the pictures you had of you earlier certainly didn’t help your case either.

Answer #4

the girl who sent this can you funmail me please? I think I can help. I just need to know who I’m talking to. Tell me if you have/haven’t gone to the police, if not, why not? This type of thing happened to me and I didn’t go to the police. x

Answer #5

get checked

Answer #6

if you were really raped you should really tell someone and not worry about what others are saying online

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