Why does my ex contact me so much?

I agree with amblessed, you should deffinitley take her calls, and talk to her! Obviously she wants to talk with you. Just talk with her, and tell her how you feel. Do it, or you’ll lose her forever, just like amblessed said.

Ok, just because she keeps calling you doesnt mean she wants to get back with you. It just might mean she cant let go, but that still doesnt mean she wants you back. Has she ever told you she wants to get back with you? Has she ever told you she regrets the breakup? Has she ever told you she still loves you? I suggest instead of asking us what she wants, ask her the next time she calls! Thats the only way your going to find out.

The reason your ex contacts you is because she loves you and doesn’t want to let go. Even if she’s told you in real life she doesnt love you or want to be with, deep down in her heart, she can’t be away from you.. MY ex said she hates me, doesn’t love me and all that crap. She even treatened me. But yet, she still calls me and acts like nothing even happened!!!

Dear butter, Write down why you broke up…what were the reasons, why you weren’t able to resolve it at the time, what was the deal breaker? When relationships cannot be worked through and there is a split up it is usually because the situation was a deal breaker and unacceptable to one or both. We can love many but not all of our loves are ones we can be with. Love doesn’t see the problems but we must reason and realize what we can tolerate and what we can’t or won’t. Patterns repeat themselves without counselling and a lot of work on ones self. Moving on from an EX is always a good idea and knowing that the relationship was dysfunctional it is a good idea not to take the calls and to move on avoiding anymore heartache and false hopes. Sue…good luck