Pregnancy help

shitty deal… it is probably the boyfriends…but there is really no way of knowing with out a paternity test. does your boyfriend know you were cheating on him??

u were on the pill while you were with your ex & even a few days later right? sperm cant live for very long, more than likely your boyfriend

There is no way around getting a DNA test.Unless these guys are completely different in the looks department and you can tell by looking at the baby who’s it is you have to get a DNA test.This is one of those “I’ll worry about it later” situations because it’s not good for you are the baby. I know for a fact sperm lives in of the vagina for three days and I’ve heard seen although I’m not sure about that.If you had sex with your boyfriend a few days later your ex sperm might have still been alive in there.You had to be on your period when you had sex with your boyfriend and birth control works for seven days after you stop taking it. I said all that to get to this you more then lately are pregant by taking boyfriend and got pregnant at a later date.

I think that was very irresponsible of you, first, to have sex with two people, second, with only a pill…(it does not protect you from stds and etc), and lastly by not refilling your pills.

Unfortunately, the only way you can find out the father is a paternity test. And to do that you have to be open and honest about things. HONESTY is the key to a relationship. Having children is a big responsibility! Trust me, I know. Especially being young…I am not sure of your age. But it means, that mommy cannot go out with friends and have sex with daddy and the ex.

Please be smart about this and take care of yourself and your baby.

There isn’t a way to tell without a paternity test. It is terrible for your relationship and your conscience to keep a secret of this magnitude from your better half. Be honest with him. Get a paternity test. The constant wondering will cause far more suffering in the long run than if you just fessed up. Imagine also, if he found out the kid wasn’t his ten years down the road…On a separate note, you might want to get tested for STD’s as well.

NO HE DOES NOT NO AND A PATERNITY TEST IS SO NOT A GOOD IDEA..ESPECIALLY IN MY SITUATION!!

more than likely the boyfriends!