Why do some people give you energy and others don't?

Yeah, I get what you mean now. Personally, I think that some people are very tiresome and boring - they almost seem to drain you of the will to live at times. Other people are really good fun to be around. They are amusing, interesting and lively. They are the type of people who are good to be around. They make you glad to be alive and give you all that extra “energy” that you referred to.

Simply: People are different…..attitude/demeanor/character/values/priorities….

yes they are different but what are some of them doing to give me energy and others take energy? And i don’t think its depending on me whatever one person is giving or taking.

that’s an interesting theory :) I wounder if that is all there is to it?

It’s definitely not dependent upon you…they are their own person…as far as doing: hard to be specific but you have to discern for yourself what traits build your energy up and conversely down…

Well I guess if we started to delve into the individuals themselves and their relation to the why’s and wherefores there would be far more involved. But on the surface of what is, in relation to the question …who we are in present time and who they are in present time determines the initial reactions of both interactions.