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I'm 17 years old and I live in Australia. I met this really cool girl through a game on the net like a month ago now. Her name is Kelly and she's 15 almost 16. And we're really into each other and we both know what each other looks and sounds like. And she lives not too far away from me which makes it even more better. But just meeting through the net makes it an odd situation and I think I'm just nervous but I asked her if she would like to go to the easter show with me in 2 weeks time. And well yeah she's all game for it and we're both excited about it. I've kind of got the day planned in my head and some ideas of what do say to her to you know make that magic moment happen but I don't want to screw things up. Everyone has their different opinions like, some think its good that I'm doing something constructive in my life, others say I should wait awhile because they think I'm going to fast with her and others plainy think that its a terrible idea to like someone through the net. I think it's great that I finally found someone who likes me, and if I do go out with her what's the best way to stay calm and what "charms" a girl? Also because like I said people aren't too fond of meeting on the net how should I break it to my parents if things work out?
Personally i would meet in a public place, I can't say i don't think its a good idea for you to meet people online, because i have done it myself... you just have be careful... I would meet and go get some ice cream at a mall or something before you goto this easter thing... as far as what to do when you are around her... just be yourself, but be confident, not to confident though... just relax... and ask her questions, you can start off by asking how she is doing. Say how glad you are to finally meet her, compliment her on what she is wearing, or her hair or something that you notice first... try to compliment her on something that not every guy compliments her on... most guys usually say you have nice eyes... I would go with i like how you have your hair... or something like that.... I like your t-shirt... (if its a cool t-shirt and not just white or something) ... once you break the ice it will be easier to talk to her and you will be comfortable. You could also bring her something... girls always think its cute when a guy brings her something we they first meet... like maybe one flower... but don't over do it! .... Anyways... i hope that helps and if you have further questions... message me...
Jason
hey dude thats good that you are getting to meet someone that you like. though i would never recogmend meeting off of the internet, because it can be dangerous and also very dissappointing. If I was you then i would schedule a sooner small date before the easter thing just so yall can get to know eachanother and get the ice cracked...because if youdont, then it will be a very long play because most likely yall wont talk during it and she will get the wrong thoughts. as for things to do while on this small date, compliment her on things that guys would not usually do, but not idiotic stalker like stuff. tell her she has beautiful eyes, and also women like being called beautiful and pretty wayyy more than being called hot and fine. make her feel like she is not only ur date but also ur friend. make her feel like she can trust. you can maybe talk a little bit about that game yall were playin but not alot at all becus i can guarentee u thats not what she wants to talk about. just use it to break the ice. really try to relax, it will help alot. if she is not the same girl you saw a picture of, then politlly say you have to go to the bathroom and ditch her sorrry as... hope it helps
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