please help me and tell me what to do!!!!

**hi im danielle..ok..im 14 and im in love with this guy matt..the only thing is he lives 3 1/2 hours away..we used to talk all the time on msn and on the phone like we couldnt get enough of eachother, people tell me to get over him, he lives to far away, it wud never work but I think it cud but he doesnt think so..he tells me to find a guy here..but I havnt found someone. I just want him to love me again but he avoids the subject of me and him, he keeps busy and we bearily talk anymore. I just cant move on I find myself thinking about him all the time. I’ve been through so much pain going through this whole thing like crying myself to sleep a lot of nights..but I wont get into that..but itz pretty bad. But we go on vacation together for a week and a half every year and just this summer he worked really hard and he bought me a real diamond ring..and while we were there one night we were alone and he took it out of his pocket and placed it on my ring finger..he said it was a promise ring..so im not sure if e still loves me or not. he even took a train and came down and slept over at my house for the weekend, that really something that he did that just so he cud be with me. my friends think hes avoiding me because he has a girlfriend there, but I asked him and he said, “no?”..and he has never lied to me before and I trust him..but the thing is I actually can picture myself marrying him and he cud picture that to..but I know were young, but we cud picture that but he dont talk about it anymore. but I love him soo much and im miserable without him and I told him that I was but he told me to move on. im soo confused and I dont know what hes doing..I really need some advice. please help me.**