How can I explain this to my mom?

wow, well maybe just explain EXACTLY why you dont like him and maybe tell her you cried and threw up. wow, you are in a tough predicament, sorry bout that. =[ but if she still says that your being unfair and mean and stuff and you can take it anymore then you could move in with your dad, or just move in with him until she understands and her and her boyfriend seperate maybe? maybe she’ll miss you a lot and take you seriously if you do move out. but it’s all up to you. and how is he ‘wierd’? like what does he do to make him wierd? (hope I helped, good luck =]]

It sounds kinda like your mom is being the selfish one, not you. She should be more responsible about certain aspects of the relationship, especially because she had kids around. But, unfortunately, some adults just don’t grow up from their high school years. Try talking with her again, be calm and logical, keep calm if she goes nuts(which is a possibility), and if all else fails, take some time to get away. Maybe you just need a break from it all.

And all you have to do it wait till you’re 18. Then you can move in with whoever you want.

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How old is your mother?