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Why is he leaving me pregnant and stuck at home?

i am a month pregnant and my boyfriend acts like he cares but when it comes down to it he ups and leaves me for his friends and im stuck at home while he is out.what should i do? im stressed out and i know its not good

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Answer #1

It’s going to take him a lot longer to register your new situation together, as he is not the one carrying the child. I cannot promise you that he ever will just drop everything to sit at your side, but if he truly cares, he will make the time to provide you with the attention and affection that you will require throughout your pregnancy. A man will never give up his friends, especially if they were there before you met him. You both have to come to some mutual understandings of each others needs and space or else the road will only get bumpier ahead. You are only one month into this pregnancy so he may feel like staying by your side is yet to be of major importance. If it’s his first child then I’m sure he’s totally clueless and probably scared. Keep your friends around and try not to let that stress get the best of you or your new baby. Everything I speak of is from my own personal experience and I hope that it has helped in some way. If you feel like speaking to me more about this feel free to message me. Good luck and congratulations.

Answer #2

OMG the guy your with sounds like a real jerk. I’m sorry to have to say that. My boyfriend did that to me too and when I told him that he needs to stop we got into a fight… but now he stopped. In your case you need to tell him WTF ‘cause you two are going to have a baby, and YOU are the one who is carrying his child so he needs to grow up and realize whats going on and that he needs to be at home with you and make sure your ok. Don’t be stressed out, because I was 3 months pregnant and all I did was be upset and cry and I had a miscarriage, I’d be like 5 or 6 months now. But please calm down.

Answer #3

same when i was in love with this girl, i kept looking at her when she didnt notice. so the best way to tell if a guy is looking at u, pretend not to notice him and then suddenly whip ur head around to see whether he’s looking at u. he’ll probably quickly look the other way. if u catch him a many times, chances are he likes u.

Answer #4

Do not be so stressed. This is the normal way of pregnancy. Try to deal with the baby in your soul.

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