Please advice!! Has anyone went thru this?

He knows you would do anything for him.Your like his shoulder to cry on,once he gets your attention and sympathy,he is off like nothing even happened.You are his substitute in his life.Its hard to let go,especially if he is your first love.But sadly,your first love isnt your only love and I know its hard to understand that.He knows he has your heart tied in a knot.He knows when he promises you romance and love,you are hypnotized and are madly in love with him and will give him anything of his hearts desires…You may ask yourself:”how do I get better once I’ve had the best?” Good question.You already know all the hurt and harm he is doing.If you let him pass,Its going to get worse.Its hard to take care of your children with only one single parent,But thinkabout how lucky they are how they have you and your supportive family to take care of them.Other than having them in the possession of their father who is betraying you…Everybody has a limit and Once he crosses,your scarred for life.Do what you would do if a loved one was in a situation like this, a bad boyfriend…Its hard to know once you have moved on,they have moved on to somebody else.Seeing the in someone elses arms…Its going to kill you…Thats why those harsh deep feelings need to pass..I know its not as easy as it sounds but at least try with all your might…Get what needs to be done…Even if its just house chores..Do it..and do stuff for yourself to get him off your mind…See him as a contagious disease that you need to risk…You are very busy trying to help others and do whats right for them…You NEED to give yourself a break and give yourself a reward for all your hard work.Only you.You deserve it with passion.YOu are beating yourself up in the situation for a guy who isnt doing his job fathering his children and supporting you.You are expecting a child and he is asking for sexual pictures?He is very inmature to do that.You are pregnant and you need to take care of yourself..All this stress and negativity is bad for you and your baby.Act now! I know you got those lovely butterflies in your stomach from him,and they still remain…Soon those butterflies may fly away…Remember what I told you last time,You need a man who fills you up to the top.That other dude is draining you…You say you already know what he is doing,Sweety.Its obvious that he gave you 3 years of love and wants to move on…But still knows your his puppet…Do let him dominate you.You are a strong woman who needs to focus…He is driving you off the lane…Do whats right…And what I mean is move on.

I think you deserve much better. sometimes two people that were once in love end their relationship because the spark goes away and they dont feel the same way they once felt before. I was in a relationship for three years and love just ended for me. I didnt feel that connection with him anymore. its going to be hard to move but you have to continue living life. I dont think you should continue sending him pictures or having sex. let him know that you wont do anything with him until he knows that he want to be with you. best of luck