Parents...ugh pls help

Ok well my parents are convinced that ima get prego at like 16.. My stp dads bros wife said that ima get prego before I’m out of high school… I’m not a slut ansi have never had a boyfriend (well I did but it olny lasted for 3 days) I do not ever want to have a bby (only because I don’t think I can b a good parent but I don’t know if I will in the future) I have. Told them that too. How can I get why parents to stop thinking that??

Answer #1

I say just ignore them! they are just hurting your feelings and trying to make you feel bad about yourself. Just stay true to yourself and remain being a good teenager who loves and cares about everyone including boys! It is not your fault, you just have a good heart to everyone! I say keep it up!

Answer #2

I think you should sit down with both of them and talk to them wery seriously about how you would never get pregnant before you are older and more responsible (just talk to them wery seriously without starting to sound desperate, as sonn as you get a hint of despair in you voice, they wont believe you) IF they dont take you seriously or dont believe you, you should talk about how they should trust you more in the same way as you told them about the pregnancy thing.

Hope I helped :)

~Chrissern

BTW: “Also it is not ok to just be friends with guys.” (moe_moe_0069) what the h*ll? Of course you can be just friends with a guy!

Answer #3

Well just try sitting them down and saying whats on your mind tell them you know you are responsible and just for the hell of it say that you don’t believe in the sex before marriage thing it will make them feel like way better and try not to grow up to fast or they will pull you right back in and treat you like there little baby again trust me. just be responsible I been with a guy for almost a year and I am very responsible when it comes to that matter. well I tried to help you hope it works okay!?

Answer #4

Some people think things by what they see. If you are really friendly with boys then they will think you are more likely to do something. Steer clear of guys and their thoughts will change. Also it is not ok to just be friends with guys. They can make your reputation bad even though you know what the truth is. Good luck!

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