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Is anyone else afraid of their parents leaving?

im askin a lotta question lately… my mum and dad divorced 8 nearly 9 years ago when I were 4 but im still not over it. one day I got home from skwl and my mum wernt thr. I got worried that she wouldnt come bk. now evrytime she goes I think she wont come bk. is this becoz im afraid she will leave like my dad did??? please help ASAP anyone in the same situation???

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Answer #1

Dear sazzii3,

What you are feeling is normal and makes since a lot of since.

I can not give you an answer beyond that of which I know and for that I am sorry because I would love nothing more then to give you a nice an comforting answer, but that is just not the truth.

I do not know if your mother will in turn leave you as well, we can never truly Know the intentions of another or any future actions that they may take.

My parents got divorced when I was five, My Mother took us and left my Dad. I am almost eighteen( will be Friday) now my Father is Dead and my Mom left me two years ago since then I have pretty much been on my own.

I do not know if your Mother will do some thing like this to you..I do not know her or her heart. I pray though that she wouldn’t.

We can not know what people will do and those who love us an who we love have the most power to hurt us, we just have to trust they wont.

may you find peace,

Dark Wolf

Answer #2

sweety I think you are suffering from abandonment issues. you should try to see someone about it as its been a long time festering inside of you and you need to get help before it eats you up. I would try to get counciling. its not silly its quite a common thing to experience. I think though that you have suffered badly from it. good luck xx

Answer #3

I do have contact with my dad but im afraid of him saying its my fault. this is what my mum says to me aswell. My mum says she doesnt mind tlkin bout it but I feel as tho it upsets her. it makes it harder my mum suffers frm depression so we have loads of arguments…

Answer #4

Yes thats exactly why you’re afraid the way that you are, you need to talk to your mom about your feelings or even your dad if you still have any contact with him.

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