How can I tell my parents that I have a boyfriend that is 3 years older than I am and he got a girl pregnant?

Answer #1

I think the best way would probably be to invite him over, and sit everyone down together. Then talk about it…

Answer #2

tell tehm he had a spiritual momment and found God and regrets wat hes done and is now tryn o find God within his life so he can hav more pride and self respect for him and so hes ready to take responsiblity. hes even starting community service so he can hav more pride for himself.

Answer #3

Rosealyn that’s kinda hard because my parents think he’s a servant of the devil….. They’re weird. But hes gothic/emo

Answer #4

Honestly, there is no easy way. They are going to take it how they are going to take it at the end either way. The best way is to have him come over to your house, have him explain himself to your perents about what he did. Also have him prove to your perents that he won’t do the same thing he did with the other girl, with you. Other than that, its up to your perents acceptance and stuff.

Answer #5

Just let them meet him generally first and then gradually get to know more and more things about him and then get into the deep things so they know if they like his personality first rather than basing their judgement on his past.

Answer #6

If you have decent and caring parents, I’m 100% certain nothing you say or do will put their minds at ease to let their daughter date this guy. I suggest telling your parents the truth about this guy and if they do not give you permission to date him, take the “NO’’ as great parenting advice and do not hate your folks for it. You are 13, you still have many more years do date and find someone you love. Do not start a relationship with someone who already has ‘serious baggage” at such a young age.

Answer #7

I agree. If they don’t know him, they’ve got nothing to judge him by except the “bad” news.

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