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How to get over my fear of doing something stupid?

ok…I get nervous around my boyfriend because I like him a lot and I’m afarid I’ll do something to make myself look retared!how can I get over that and hold his hand…I mean I put my arm through his I’m just nervous to grap his hand!!plzz help..

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Answer #1

listen, guys like it hen girls make the first move. if you think about it, what are you afraid of? he’s not going to cry and run away when you..hold his arm. just do it

Answer #2

It might make you nervous, but once you put yourself out there and take his hand, you will be glad you did! Just act nonchalantly about it and do it!

Answer #3

As a guy, I know it is really cool when a girl makes the first move. It makes you feel like you aren’t the only one in the relationship who wants to feel the touch of the other person. Generally, girls want to be loved, and guys are branded with the “all we think about is sex” stereotype,so it’s nice sometimes to have a girl who is willing to come at halfway, even if it’s just holding hands. I’m sure he’ll appreciate it a lot!

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