How can I get over my fears and insecurities?

Okay, if this turns out long, sorry. but if not, then good! I’ve been talking to this guy for a month and a half. I met him online. I thought that when we first started talking like within those 3 days he’d stop talking to me or want something that I’m not going to give, but that didn’t happen. We have everything in common. We like the same things and act similar. Thing is, I’ve never talked to him on the phone. We both want to. But for me, I’m so insecure, that I can’t bring myself to do it. I think that this is too good to be true, that he’ll get tired of me and stop talking to me, and all that stuff. Found out today that he wants to meet me. I want to meet him too, but I fear that he’ll see me and think I’m ugly or too fat or something like that and stop talking to me. I don’t know… what should I do? Any advice. I’ve never been in a relationship before either (well sorta, but I don’t count it, cause it was a waste of time…looong story lol), so I wouldn’t know what to do if I talked to him or even meet him. Help?

Answer #1

firstly STAY SAFE, its a dangerous game meeting people online!! maybe you should bring a friend to watch use or something. but anyways just be confident I know its easier said than done but if use have everything in common you should have nothing to worry about im sure your beautiful and he should be appreciating that your even considering meeting up with him! you should be the 1 calling the shots and not worrying about what he thinks. I know what its like feeling insecure but just try your best to boost your confidence and hopefully all will go well but I cant stress enough how you should STAY SAFE think on your own two feet dont be naive make sure this is a safe thing to do (meeting him)! xx

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