Oh my gosh I am so sorry (9/11)

My dad died in 9/11 when I was 6 years old. 4 days later I turned 7, when people find out that my dad died they say oh my gosh I am so sorry… I have looked for answer’s all this time now but I still don’t know what to say after they say omg, I mean I cant say its ok cause well ITS NOT and it feels weird to say thank you because it doesn’t make sense, what do I say???

Answer #1

Say, “So am I…” and just put a pause there. They will get an honest concern then.

Answer #2

I would not look away , makes people uncomfotable. I would say what beautiful said. It is really sad and that whole day changed the lives of many people. I am sure that when these people say this to you, they really mean it. It was something that should have never happened. I hope you can or did find peace in your heart with what happened to you.

Answer #3

just kinda smile and look down like dont really give in answer or just like say “yea..” and look away thats what I do

Answer #4

thank you for you concern. that works for me…

Answer #5

say “I appreciate your concern”

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