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What if I'm uncomfortable doing stuff back?

I am 14 and my boyfriend is 16. we have been going out about 2 months and we have had a pretty open relationship. he even respects the fact that I dont want to have s*x until we have been going out a year. I havent had any experience other than kissing a guy. we have talked about him fingering me and I think I am going to let him. the only thing is that if he wants somethin back I wont know what to do. I dont even know if I will be comfortable with that. what should I do?

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Answer #1

If you don’t feel you’re ready,follow your dignity. Nomatter what people say you are not meant,AND DO NOT HAVE to give sexual favors to anyone you are not officially commited to.Bf,gf are NOT supposed to do that,if they were,what desires are to be revealed inside marriage?None really. When you do that w/just a bf,steady or not,1 month,or 3 years..It reveals something about you that you cant really get back,and guys start to naturally expect it,DO NOT EVER PUT YOURSELF that low,no matter what he says like “my opinion will never change about you,it will bring us closer”Guys wish that,but naturally,it alters their mind,and puts you at high risk for insecurity if the relationship fails,so it’s bad for you both.Dont do anything you wouldnt want your future to be doing with someone else. If a boy expects this of you,forget it,it’s not worth it.The boys who can wait for you and just love hanging out with you are the ones thatll be worth it.

Answer #2

Allow to touch your private when you feel the inclinations for that, and not only in your head but also between your legs, and the boy’s task to give you this feeling. But he is not able to give it if you are not matured for that. This is such a complicated situation.

Answer #3

If you are not comfortable with it, don’t do it. If you’re nervous and tense, you probably wouldn’t enjoy it as much anyway.

When you are ready to do something for him, you will know that you are ready. You won’t be wondering. Being ready means being able to talk to him, not us, about it. You’ll have to be comfortable, open, and able to communicate with him. We can’t tell you what he likes and wants. Only he can do that. People like very different things.

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