How should I break up with him and get my stuff back?

Dear florida06, This can happen when we rush into relationships without truly knowing the person. Sounds like he has no idea that you are not happy. You owe it to him and anyone you are in a committed relationship with to talk with that person face to face….unless you fear abuse. Arrange for a quiet evening at home or if are afraid at a place where you have trusted friends. Talk and be honest about how you feel, explain that you need some time for yourself. Don’t forget you are responsible to keep the relationship interesting and fun…it isn’t only a males responsibility. Us females tend to get bored faster than males do (not all) so we need to be creative. If you really want to let go then explain that to him, if you just want to do more interesting things up and have some more fun then I suggest you do it. After all we are the more creative sex (not all)..(sorry guys lol) Sue…good luck