In love but he hits me

break up with him ! or go to rehabilitation unit

I thinkyou should get help. If hes abusive you shouldnt be with him. I hope everything between you guys gets better:] funmail me if things get better:]

why would he hit you for going outside??? dont put up wit that sh*tt..girrl get outta that or get sum helpp or itll get worse..

I would say both use drugs ,both of you are are at gilt , but if you enjoy the beating that is you ‘re problem. What kind of person are you we don ‘t know,do you push him 2.Do that2 you we don’t no. you both do drugs you are both wrong . More info

Hey! Have you ever thought about going to a rehab center or a shrink (no offense). When I was little I had really bad issues, my mom took me to a shrink to get my stuff sorted out. I’ve changed shrinks only 1 time because the other b*tch I hated her. But as you said in your other question, that you didn’t have parents and you were raised by your aunt who never really loved you, that can be hurtful. In a way that no one is there for you. So, I honestly think that you should go see a shrink(no offense, I’m not saying you’re screwed up) allow 10 sessions, if you see it doesn’t help than stop going. And also you should go to rehab about your drug issue. I know you love your boyfriend, but he isn’t good for you, he hits you and he will never change. I think that you should also brake up with him and get your life together.

I hope that I helped you! XOXO Kristyn

P.S. I have really bad family problems too and all my family has drug issues and alcohol problems. And my mother also has been in a abusive relationship with my dad, was getting beaten up in front of me and much more… I’ve been around drugs, and the bad part of town and much more,,, I wasn’t raised in a bad part of town, my mom isn’t on drugs or anything but my dad has a drug problem. Mom on the other hand has a college education… But any way make the long story short, do not think that I don’t know what I’m talking about. Because I really want to help you…(if you want of course)

The easy answer is to get off the narcotics and leave any dude that hits you. But if it was so easy to do, you woulda done it already, right?

Narcotics mess up your judgement and priorities like crazy. As a user, you know how much you live your life around your poison, but don’t forget that its not only worse than you might admit, its much worse than you realize. As long as getting high is a part of your life, you won’t see your use for what it is and you will make excuses for it. The drug bond between you and this guy is another complication. Plus he is another poison.

Physical abuse is unacceptable and you can’t act like it will stop or get better. Sorry to be so extreme, but women aremurdered by their husbands, boyfriends or lovers at an alarming rate.

These issues are huge! Drugs and domestic violence? I know anybody could tell you this mama, but you gotta seek professional help. If you’re in LA as in Los Angeles? I know there are organizations out there. You have your choice of who you ask first - the domestic violence people or the rehab people.

If you have no experience in such things, don’t be shy. Professionals understand you’re in a sensitive situation and that’s what they’re trained to handle.