My boyfiend hits me but I love him what should I do

I am a 14 year old girl I am in love with a 14 year old boy but he beats on me im afraid to tell on him because im afraid he’ll hit me even harder I feel that he loves me and I know I love him but the pain hurts is it my fault?

Answer #1

Hitting is not the way to deal with situations, espcially in a relationship. If he’s 14yrs and he hits you now, then I could only imagine how he’ll be in the future. He needs to seek help now, before he gets out of control. You need to let him go!

Answer #2

Dont let him hit u, he’s not right for you if her hits u,and if you do let him hit you he thinks hes much stronger(girls and guys are the same>.<)

Answer #3

its not your fault, tell someone you can trust about this and leave him…

Answer #4

Honey, you’re 14 years old, please have more repect for yourself and get out of that relationship. I’m sure he hits you and somehow makes you feel like it was your fault, right? Or after he does it, tells you he’s sorry, how much he loves you, and that he’ll never do it again? Please get out while you still can because if you wait it might be too late and he will do it again

Answer #5

NO no no. But if your doing nothing to stop this behavior, you only have yourself to blame. Tell his mom. I’d totally ground him for a year. haha. but to be serious, he needs help. If this continues, and nothings done about it, it will only get more severe. You can not get him the help, he has to seek it, or try talkin to his parents without him knowing. Unless somethings not right happening in the home?…

Answer #6

An abuser never changes - I know this from experience.

You need to get away from this boy, and the sooner, the better.

I know it isn’t easy to walk away from someone you care so much for, but think about it - if he really cared for you, would he be hurting you? The answer is “no”. There is never a good enough excuse for a guy to hit a girl - NEVER!

Stop playing the victim, find your inner strength and get rid of him.

Answer #7

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