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Why the hell do guys look at other women when they have a girlfriend? like dont they know it pisses us off.. its so disrespectful…specially when you see them do it, and then they deny it and try to make you loook like a bad person..whats the big deal..why do they have to look at other women..specially skanks..its like were walking down a street..he sees yellow hair and ohmygod earth to boyfriend?! seriously why do they do this? it hurts.

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Answer #1

I don’t see anything wrong with it, as long as the guy has his priorities straight (I.e. he’s your boyfriend and he is loyal). Being in a relationship doesn’t mean that he suddenly sees all women as ugly. Be realistic now. The female form is beautiful, even straight girls tend to look at attractive women. If you start to become a control freak to your boyfriend, it will give him a reason to leave you, because you’re insinuating that you don’t trust him, and that you’re taking his freedom away.

Answer #2

I think it’s just a natural thing…think about it, men are more VISUALLY stimulated than women, they see something that looks good to them, and it’s hard not to react to it because of the way men a wired..it’s been this way forever..women on the other hand, need to be INTELLECTUALLY stimulated, you know, conversation, dinners , movies, etc, where time spent actually fills the intellectual needs of women in order to “turn them on” and a man gets turned on by just SEEING something that looks good to them…sorry, but get used to it, thats just the way it is…but if he goes home with you and is committed to you then I wouldn’t worry too much.. men fantasize as much or more than women, and as long as it stays a fantasy, then no harm, no foul…

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