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So the other day I found 6 emails from my boyfriend of 4 years to sluts on craigslist. He searched craigslist to under women seeking men (which right there I think is wrong) and responded to 6 girls stating who he was and that he was looking for some “webcam fun”. This was a a week ago. I was sick to my stomach when I saw that but never saw any responses so hoped it was a one time thing. I also asked him straight to his face if he ever used his webcam with anyone but me,(just in general conversation not accusing or anything), and he flat out said NO and that he wouldn’t (at least not in that way). So today I found out that on my way over to his house he was looking for more girls and emailed one again today wanting to “chat” and “share pictures and videos with” I left his house soon after because I couldn’t stand him touching me and felt sick to my stomach. I don’t think I’m over reacting but I don’t know what to think. Should I confront him (I went in his email so thats my bad) or do I let it go? Do most guys do this? I feel like I’m not good enough for him. And it’s not like we don’t have sex, we do…please give some advice or insight… ~Confused

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Answer #1

It’s different if he was just looking at porn, but he’s actually talking to other girls. Yeah, you probably shouldn’t have gone through his email, but I think what he’s doing is worse than what you did. What about the fact that you may not be able to trust him anymore? I think you should talk to him about it and ask what he is lacking in the relationship and how can you change it? =D

Answer #2

I’m scared to tell him…because of the fact that I went through his email and he might not trust me anymore and then I will never feel I can trust him either and I am constantly wondering what else he does behind my back…If you are in a serious relationship why are you looking for other girls in the first place?

Answer #3

confront him about and no not all guys do it if I found sh*t like that on my man comp.I wud be on the news right now for murder or attempted murder not saying you shud kill him.lol..but I think you shud kick him to the curve just until he learns his lesson because technally its not cheating but its not right either…good luck with that…

Answer #4

Confront him. Not with anger, but be calm and try your best to place your feelings and thoughts into a sensible argument. Yes, you went through his email, and if you feel that’s wrong then just apologize for that part. You gave him the chance to come clean with the web cam problem and he didn’t tell you the truth obviously. So talk to him, tell him exactly how that makes you feel, and if he continues to lie to you about it and doesn’t assure you that it won’t happen again, then think to yourself if you really want to stay with this guy or not. If he feels strongly about you and your relationship he wouldn’t have been doing that in the first place, and if he realizes he may lose you and he feels hurt then he’ll stop. hope this helped

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