Why do I have this nagging urge to fight?

Is there something wrong with me?

Answer #1

most of the time when I daydream, I picture myself fighting. This is weird because I haven’t really been in a fight before, I get good grades, and a nice guy. When I think of fighting my blood gets a little warm and I get a little excited. I have been known to bottle my emotions, this may be a cause but not a severe one. Recently I want to release a little bit of anger (non-violently) on this girl who broke up with me (the nice guy who wouldn’t cheat) for an ex who cheated on her… twice. And I want to fight this kid that I just don’t like. What’s wrong with me? Why do I have this urge to fight? Thank you for your comments

Answer #2

its hard to tell if anythings wrong, but obviously wanting to fight all the time isnt really healthy behaviour. maybe you feel like you need to proove yourself or your strength and “manliness” and beleive bashing someone and winning would proove that. if thats how you think its very unhealthy, so you might want to talk to a doctor about your feelings, other than that i dont know. you should know why you have these feelings, try to think hard and figure out why and were they started from

Answer #3

bottling up your emotions ill have soemthing to do with your urges as well. its unhealthy to keep all your feelings to yourself, and if you have so much anger waiting to come out, your eventually going to snap and release it all. find better ways to release your anger and emotions when they happen. maybe try a karate class, listen to music, scream at the top of your lugs, play a sport, paint, write ect, whatever makes you feel better and releases your anger, just not towards other people

Answer #4

Since it is a daydream, it’s fantasy. Maybe you don’t really have an “urge” to fight, so much…..as found an avenue to get those endorphins flowing. Some people use sex to do the same thing, but what their daydreams are about, and what they’d do in reality, are poles apart. As long as it stays in a day dream or fantasy….sounds pretty harmles..

Answer #5

u just want to get ur anger out i have to constantly hold myself bak when someone idk looks at me and laughs but my ex told everyone a bunch of stuff bout me so me and my friend took a baseball bat and beat him up it was awesome

Answer #6

It’s not the feeling of proving my self, or being manly. I just want to fight, I wouldn’t care if I lost, I just have this feeling to fight. to most likely to pound out aggression (song reference lol)

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